Who's Your Daddy?

No, I don't mean your father. I mean who is in control of your feelings and emotions? Are you in control, or is your ex?
Though breakups are painful, a wise person takes a step back, to figure out what happened, and why. Was the source of the problem an argument? Was the issue worth the attention being placed on it now?

The best thing to do now is to place phusical and emotional distance between you and your ex. Allow some time for both of you to cool off. No real progress can be made to reconcile your differences while you are both hot about the issue. To solve the problem you must be able to have a positive realistic conversation. Time and distance will allow you and your ex to take emotion out of the equation and work through to a solution.

Although you need to keep in contact and have communication, keep light and skip the drama and emotion , ok.

Most breakups can be easily undone if you and your ex can simply find the patience and civility to talk things through, so this should be your primary goal if you want to rekindle the flame with an ex significant other that you care significantly for.

These are just the beginning steps in how to win your ex back without driving him away. If you need more help right away, I suggest you check out T. Dubb Jackson's site. The Magic of Makingup.

OldCoot

How to get an Ex back

Did you just experience a break up? Are you wondering how to go get an ex back? Almost every adult has experienced some kind of a break up, and most just work on moving on rather than looking for a way to get an ex back.

If you are playing the victim and want to put some work into getting an ex back, then there are options.

. First step in learning how to get an ex back is to determine what exactly happened that caused the break up.

. Next step in the process is to ensure that you are not coming off as a needy person. Stay strong, and let your ex see that you are doing just fine by yourself.

.Trying to make your ex jealous is not good. In fact, these are some of the worst things that you can possibly do, because it will show your ex that he or she should simply move on because you already have.

This strategy should help you make great progress in getting your ex back.

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OldCoot